Now a days I have everything I need, I love job, my new flat is really nice, white, and has great light, and a comfy couch to read Bet me, by jennifer Crusie for the 10 time, plus I´m single and loving it. So I dont understand why my friends dont get my desire to stay in on a Saturday night. So I decided to explain why...why is so hard to go out partying.
First of all...I´m absolutely sure that in a disco I will not meet someone that is really worth it, or at least not prince charming, and even though you may be lucky one night, during the first our dancing, as the night continues everything and everyone turns bad, they are drunk, and smelly (because inside every disco of every country of the world, is really hottt), and when it is time for the bar/disco to close, suddenly you are the most attractive girl there, and every guy is trying to take you home, (you or any girl that says yes...is not that they really like you), to see if they can have sex with you that night. But I have to said, that I don´t like that, I like, romance, a nice dinner, or coffee, getting to know the guy before I sleep with him.
Second, if you go out, every time you have to think...what you will put (a nice and short dress...you cant go out with pants, or pj) and always put some make up on, it is like a rule...no sorry more like a obligation that society command us to obey. And I hate that....even when you go out only with your friends, if you are not with make up,or your hair done, you are like a freak that doesn´t care of her own presentation.
Don´t get me wrong, I love dressing up and using make up; but dressing up and putting on makeup only to go to a jungle of smelly and drunk guys it a NO-NO on my book.
The best and most fun night out partying, in my case, were those nights that I didnt plan on going out, that I was wearing flats, or snickers, my hair was in up in a bun, and I could dance all night long, comfortable and having fun, with out worrying if my skirt was short and everyone could see my panties, or if my make up was all right.
Finally, I lost my best party companion, Lucy (my best friend if you didnt read my previous post), stop going out because she has a boyfriend (I don´t get that...your social life is not over because you are in a relationship...but I will talk about that some other time).
So, that's all...yeah I know that I probably sound like an old lady complaining about the loud music, but the truth is that I prefer staying in, and probably meeting my other half some where else rather than in a disco...maybe in a bus stop...who knows...do some of you feel the same??
But, never the less, sometimes I do go out partying, and I really have fun, but sometimes, like yesterday, I do go out, I came home at 7 am, and I can´t sleep, because I think why on earth did I go out and didnt stay in.